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How to ask for a pay rise (and why it beats any saving tip)

A raise is usually the biggest money move you can make in a year. A five-step plan to ask with evidence, a number and the right timing.

By Edgevex Updated 4 min read

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The short version

  • A pay rise is usually the biggest money move you can make in a year. It beats almost any saving tip.
  • Ask with evidence, a specific number and good timing, not with how hard you work or what your rent costs.
  • Ask a few weeks before budgets are set, not at the review where the decision is already made.
  • If the answer is no, ask what would make it a yes, and get the timeline in writing.

Most money advice is about spending less. That has a ceiling. Your income does not, and one good conversation a year with your manager can be worth more than every coffee you will ever skip.

Yet many people never ask. They wait to be noticed, take whatever the annual review brings, and quietly fall behind people who simply asked.

Why one raise is worth more than it looks

A €3,000 raise is not €3,000. It becomes your new baseline. Future percentage raises build on top of it, and so does your next job offer, since new employers often anchor on what you earn now.

€90,000€3,000 a year, over a 30-year career, before any growth
€142,726The same raise if your pay then grows 3% a year

And if you invest the extra €250 a month after it lands, at 7% a year for 30 years, it could grow to around €305,000. That is what one uncomfortable conversation can be worth. See how compound interest works for the maths.

Step 1: Know your number

You cannot negotiate without knowing what your work is worth on the market. Spend an evening on this:

  • Job adverts for your role and level in your city that show a salary range.
  • Salary surveys from recruiters and industry bodies, many of which are free.
  • Salary comparison sites where employees share their pay.
  • People you trust in similar roles. Talking about pay feels awkward, and it is one of the most useful conversations you can have.

Come out of it with a range. Your ask should sit near the top of it, with evidence for why.

Step 2: Build your case

Your manager has to justify the raise to someone else. Give them the words. Write a one-page summary of the last 12 months:

  1. Results with numbers. Revenue won, costs saved, time saved, projects shipped, customers kept.
  2. Scope that grew. New responsibilities, people you now train or manage, systems you own.
  3. Market data. The range you found in step 1.

Leave out: your rent, your bills, or how long you have been there. Those are real, but they are reasons you need more money, not reasons the business should pay it. Make the case about value.

Step 3: Time it right

The biggest mistake is asking at the annual review. By then, budgets are usually set and your manager has a number already. Better moments:

  • One to three months before the budget or review cycle, when there is still room to move numbers.
  • Right after a clear win, while it is fresh in everyone’s mind.
  • When your role has grown beyond what you were hired to do.

Avoid the week of layoffs, a bad quarter or your manager’s worst deadline. Context matters.

Step 4: Have the conversation

Ask for a meeting with a clear subject, so nobody is ambushed. Then keep it simple:

"I would like to talk about my pay. Over the last year I have [two or three results]. Based on that and what similar roles pay, I am asking for [specific number]."

Then stop talking. The silence after a number feels long. Let it. The first person to fill it with "but I understand if…" usually ends up with less.

Ask for a specific figure, not "a bit more". Specific numbers sound researched. Round numbers sound guessed.

Step 5: If the answer is no

A no today is often a not-yet. Turn it into a plan:

  1. Ask what would need to be true for this to be a yes. Results, skills, scope.
  2. Agree a date to revisit it, ideally within three to six months.
  3. Put it in writing. A short email afterwards summarising what you agreed protects both of you.
  4. Ask about other levers. Extra holiday, remote days, training budget, a bonus, a better title or pension contributions can all be worth real money.

If the answer stays no and the market says you are underpaid, that is useful information too. Moving to a new employer often brings a bigger jump than an internal raise. Interviewing elsewhere is not disloyal. It is how you find out what you are worth.

Keep reading: put the raise to work. Check how much you should have saved by your age and set up sinking funds so the extra money is not swallowed by irregular bills.

The bottom line

Know your market rate, write down your results, ask before budgets are set, and name a specific number. Then invest at least part of what you win, so the raise keeps paying long after the conversation is over.

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